The Language of Flowers
I love you, forgive me... what flowers can tell
From celebrating a birth to mourning at a funeral, every occasion in one’s life can be marked with flowers. The symbolism of some blooms is so ingrained in our culture that we rarely question it.
If one has hurt a lover and needs to apologize, there are a several flowers that can convey that sentiment. Rue represents regret. The phrase “to rue the day” means “to regret the day”. Folklore dating back to at least the 1700’s indicates that rue might not mean a passive “I’m sorry” regret, but an active “you’ll be sorry” form of regret. Although rue is still acceptable as an apology flower, there are other options. Bachelor’s Button represents hope and devotion. Anytime one needs to seek forgiveness, hope is useful. White tulips represent forgiveness in many cultures. Additionally, tulips are seen as the harbingers of spring and carry a sense of hope, renewal, and rebirth with them.
Flowers that represent mourning vary from culture to culture. It might be best to do a little research before sending flowers for such an occasion.
In general, if someone is confused as to what flower to send for any occasion, a florist is the best person to ask.